It is possible to determine a partner’s willingness to have intercourse not just with the condition of his penis. Erections are not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to know what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man is easily aroused and by other signs that are not so direct.
Non -verbal cues
Intentionally or not, a man with external manifestations of behavior and bodily reactions shows his interest in objects of the opposite sex. Non -verbal messages from the partner will help understand his or her situation and willingness to have sex. Often the repetition of actions speaks to his desires. This "reflection" is a clear symptom of passion and a desire for a closer relationship.
When communicating, a man captured by passion will try to get closer, reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action is performed automatically without being noticed. Next, he will try to touch the woman with his hands or feet, perform body contact, but this does not mean that the passionate partner will carry out the attack without adhering to the rules of decency.
The acquaintance was quite relaxed, light -hearted, without obsession, but the joy a man experienced while having the intercourse was clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is unintentional, seeing a certain persistence and restlessness towards human behavior.
It is also important to record external manifestations in male behavior. In a moment of excitement, he tried to straighten his shoulders, pull his stomach, present his figure with a good light. Often, out of excitement, the couple starts licking her lips, gripping her chin, nose or ears with her fingers, which is also typical for women.
The signs of a man's arousal, manifested non-verbally, can be reduced to a small list of his behavioral characteristics:
- a man eagerly trying to please a woman - to move a chair, open a door, help carry something or serve;
- he seeks to reduce distance in communication;
- during a conversation, a man tries to make body contact lightly;
- a man, burning the spirit of a woman, does his best to be alone with her more often.
Male pose
The need to show sexual attraction in an implicit way was born in an era of strict rules and laws, when attitudes toward such intimate processes were prohibited by church moral codes and standards. Both men and women need to show their partners a willingness to take action without fear of publicity and public criticism. In such cases, non -verbal cues make it possible to learn about likes and dislikes.
Wanting women and not showing them is wrong, from the point of view of ordinary men. Thus, the potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to show to the object of his or her desire through sexual gestures and postures.
The men showed most of the gestures and postures at the reflex level without being aware of their sexual orientation towards the woman. Some clearly show interest, others are more hidden and only read by a girl willing to be contacted.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he inadvertently starts giving her an "alpha male". She showed a willingness to have sexual intercourse with a confident attitude and showed a high tone of the physical condition of her own body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man straightened his back and straightened his shoulders;
- try to pull the stomach deeper;
- if a man stands, his legs shoulder -width apart, showing special stability and strong position;
- it is also important to trace the position of the socks of the man's shoes, if he is interested in any interesting people, then they will be addressed to this woman;
- if a man is sitting on a chair, he will inadvertently stretch his legs, until, as if showing his own genitals, he is ready for mating.
The attitude and intuition of a man who wants to take the woman he likes voluntarily often resembles the behavior of a male monkey during a game of rutting and mating, which shows the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man started straightening his clothes and hair in hopes of impressing the woman with his appearance. Instead of an angular and heavy style, he moves fast, like an athlete, while correcting the lack of figure, straightening and removing his abdomen. Glow appears in the eyes, the skin on the face is automatically tightened, and the bags under the eyes disappear by themselves. In general, passion makes a person look younger and highly desired by friends.
Now such movements are seldom used, and many have forgotten them, but even fifty years ago, a thumb placed behind a trouser belt meant a rude, polite act towards a woman, intended to show their own genitals.
The delay of the man's gaze on the object of his lust says a lot. When he sees a woman in the eye for longer than is prescribed by the rules of decency, this indicates his joy and willingness to relate more closely.
The location of the hand on the hip indicates a woman’s physical advantage over other competitors, her strength and power, and therefore her willingness to grow.
It is interesting that women are more sensitive to the manifestations of men's attention and quickly pay attention to all possible tricks of the partner, while a man may not understand the sympathy shown to him by the girl for so long.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in men is indicated not only by the erection of the penis, but also by other physiological signs, often not so obvious.
A man, submissive to passion, often straightened the details of his dress, loosening the tie, which literally began to strangle him. The breath becomes rhythmic, the tone of voice can change to a lower one, vision becomes blurred, the pulse gets faster, blood pressure soars. Behavioral features during this period are very difficult to hide from outside attention, and even more so from the object of desire-a woman catches such signs immediately and consciously.
A man can be aroused not only by the direct manifestation of a woman’s sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The next wave of enthusiasm catches the couple, and their behavior changes depending on temperament and hormone levels. The common signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which, in terms of symptoms, resemble a depressed state. In addition to rapid breathing and heartbeat, changes in voice and pressure, an increase in muscle tone occurred, pupils dilated, and an increase in salivation was observed.
During an erection, a clear fluid is released from the penis, which does not contain sperm, but is a type of lubricant that allows you to penetrate a woman’s vagina without much effort. It rises along the wall of the urethra and remains at the head of the penis in the form of droplets.
The oil comes from Cooper’s glands and contains a variety of enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- he excretes the remnants of urine in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment in the female vagina;
- the consistency of the viscous lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for semen production;
- the lubricant allows you to do friction during sex without injuring the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the male body and can range from one small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of removing this fluid is to provide a good environment for conceiving a child. Neutralizing the acidic atmosphere in the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of male sexual arousal is penile erection. Because of the increased blood supply to the penis, the body of the cavernosa is filled with plasma, and the size of the organ feels increased in length and width.
The change in the size of the penis in an erect position from normal depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body, but it has been observed that the small penis grows more markedly than the more impressive organs.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, because its penetration into the vagina of the woman can be ensured, the man at this time is completely ready to conspire and the passion is growing.
During penetration into a woman’s chest, the man’s body is more involved in the process of intercourse. Heart rate increases, muscle tension reaches its limit, pressure rises higher
and it becomes almost impossible to withstand the spirit.
The culmination of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts for 5-10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate gland while pushing the semen of the urethra filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm can make a sudden sound and moan. The volume of semen depends on the person’s determination and the duration of abstinence.